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1- Tell me something that uplifts me. This tells me your mind is in the right place and also that you care much about how you treat me. That’s respectable. Do something for me that does nothing for you but to be able to see me smile again.

2- Listen to me and don’t make fun of me unless it’s not at all to make fun of me.

3- Walk with me and stay at my side as much as possible. Let me know I have your attention at the moment. Hold my hand. Hug me when you can. Nothing more would be great.

4- Respect my mind, my work, my space, my relationships. Place value in the goals you know I seek. Help me achieve them.

5- Figuratively & literally, raise your hand to say what’s needed but take a seat when it’s someone else’s time to lead. Know your place.

6- Teach me. Be my friend…let’s connect. Have understanding enough that you can say what’s on my mind but do not ever try to be overbearing in the way you speak to me.

7- Admit your wrong-doings/mistakes/flaws/limitations with no evil intent. Always be pursuing what is right and true.

8- Realize that my heart is not a prize to be won but a gift I will share freely when I find who I love.